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Drop expectations.

Do you know what the best part is about loving people the way they are,
without having to change them? You get to be in control of your feelings.
No matter how bad people are at following your expectations, you don’t
have to feel upset. Of course, you can set boundaries to protect yourself,

or you can let people know about the consequences if you need to lead
them, but you still don’t need to go through unnecessary drama.
You can make yourself happy without waiting for others to do it for you.
You’ll get to enjoy all the things you do for them in a relationship, because

you’ll do it out of your own joy.
The truth is people get to be who they are, just like you get to be whoever
you are. Accept this wonderful fact, and relationships will feel a lot easier.
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放下期待。

欣赏别人的样子而不是去改变他们，你知道这样做最大的好处是什么吗？

你可以掌控自己的情绪。无论别人与你的期待是多么不符，你都不会因此
而感到难过。当然，你要有保护自己的底线，也可以在你需要影响对方的
时候告诉他们后果，但是你不会卷入不必要的冲突之中。

你不需要依赖别人，也可以让自己感到快乐。你会开始享受你在这段关系
中为对方所做的一切，因为你的所有行为都是出于自己的快乐。
其实，人们有权做自己，就像你也有权做自己一样。接受这个美好的事

实，你会发现人际关系会变得轻松许多。

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