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Don’t play the blame game.

Don’t play the blame game. It has zero benefits.
If you can suddenly feel happier by resenting others for what they’ve
done, do it. But I bet it won’t work.
If you can solve a problem by pointing fingers, do it. But I’m pretty sure it
will only perpetuate the pain.

I’m not just talking about other people; don’t blame yourself when things
go wrong, either.
Finding out who did what wrong and blaming them is not what you want

to do, because it’s not that useful.
If you can focus your energy on fixing the problem, that would be better.
If you can prevent a future problem, that would be the best.
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不要随意责备。

不要随意责备。它没有任何好处。
如果对别人心存怨恨能让你突然更加快乐，你当然可以这么做。但是我保
证这是不可能的。

如果对别人指指点点能解决问题，你当然可以这么做。但是我可以肯定，
这只会让痛苦延续。
我说的不仅仅是其他人；在犯错误时，同样不要责备自己。

你没必要去追究是谁做错了什么，然后责备他们，因为这毫无意义。
专注于解决问题是更好的选择。如果你能预防未来问题再次发生，那才是
最好的做法。

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